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What is Internal Family Systems Therapy and how does it work?
Nicola Sharp 3/11/19 Nicola Sharp 3/11/19

What is Internal Family Systems Therapy and how does it work?

What is Internal Family Systems and how does it work?

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Which of the Four People-Pleasing Types Are You?
Nicola Sharp 3/11/19 Nicola Sharp 3/11/19

Which of the Four People-Pleasing Types Are You?

You know youโ€™re a people-pleaser if you often put others first, donโ€™t think about your needs, and worry a lot about what others think about you.

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Self-Abandonment: What is it and What Can We Do About it?
Nicola Sharp 3/11/19 Nicola Sharp 3/11/19

Self-Abandonment: What is it and What Can We Do About it?

Self-abandonment is when you deny your intuition, emotions, needs, or beliefs. It often happens due to fear of fully acknowledging what you truly think, feel or believe or due to fear of rejection from others.

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Is Guilt Stopping You From Setting Boundaries? 7 Tips From a Therapist
Nicola Sharp 3/11/19 Nicola Sharp 3/11/19

Is Guilt Stopping You From Setting Boundaries? 7 Tips From a Therapist

A very common barrier to putting in boundaries is not wanting to feel guilt for expressing your needs. Not wanting to feel like an unkind, rude or mean person, when expressing something that you think (or fear) that someone else will not like.

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A really common problem when setting boundaries is not following through on them. 

It can be really important to restate the boundary and hold it when challenged. But a lot of us might not know what to say, especially when we feel overwhelmed and ou
Boundaries are limits that we ultimately set with ourself about what is ok and not ok, and discern what is important to us. They don't always have to be communicated, but can be set internally. Of course we may need to communicate them to others to h
We talk so much about where we need to boundaries but it's also helpful to look at where we ARE setting healthy boundaries ๐Ÿ’ซ

Ultimately, you decide where you want your boundaries to be, but I hope these help you think about what's healthy for you ?
Try remembering these when times are tough ๐ŸŒฟ๐Ÿ’š๐ŸŒฟ

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